Etiquette

Etiquette is more than just pointing your pinky finger while sipping a beverage. In the realm of social realities, etiquette is related to social interactions rather than to ethical behavior, although the two are not mutually exclusive. We may believe that there is little relevance to knowing which utensil to use at a formal meal. The social reality is that there is considerable relevance attached. No matter the extent of our expertise or prowess, we are all judged by the social company that we keep. Although our brilliance may be recognized and appreciated within our work environment, if we conduct ourselves as country bumpkins while dining formally, we potentially restrict our upward mobility. We all have perceptions of how things should be. We don't always see the social realities at play. A napkin around the neck and drinking from the finger bowl just don't git it.